Mark loves to write. If you don't know him this shows you his amazing spirit!
Written by Mark on March 28, 2006
Mr. Rogers - we love you! Mr. Rogers was an elderly man who had no job to speak of. He lived alone in an apartment with a gold-fish and a traffic light. Occasionally he would ride a miniature train to the "World of Make-believe". It was a room with a King and queen, talking gophers, an owl who had an apartment of his own and a crazy librarian in a circular library. Mr. Rogers often received "Speedy deliveries" that he would never have to pay for. These, "Speedy deliveries" came before his journey to the "World of Make-believe". Hmmm... Whenever he left his apartment he visited a chef that seemed to bake only for him. I loved him so. I really did. Saving life His eyes have rolled back into his head. Is he breathing, is he dead? Every tick of the second hand on the clock is like a judges gavel punishing me for not doing something. His mother is screaming and frantic. Her pleas for help make me think of the loud speaker at school. A loud interruption as I tried to study for my test. The noise drowns in and out like a radio alarm clock. I need to do something...... A couple of years ago my girlfriend and I were at Boston Market ordering food. Just then the women erupted into panic. Her little boy was limp. His eyes retreated into his head and his breathing slowed to a point where I could not be sure I could detect it at all. We didn't panic. We are proud of that. As the woman wailed I placed the child on a table and my girlfriend tried to calm the woman. I was calm and took control of the situation but I didn't know what to do. One of the restaurant employees had already dialed 911. They were on their way but every moment seemed to last a lifetime, just like they say it does in times like these. In a short time the boy would come to. He seemed to have a seizure. I was left feeling frustrated and helpless. Recently I acted on these feelings and took a C.P.R. course. I encourage everyone to be certified. You learn the skills necessary to save a life. It may be the life of someone you love very much. I believe C.P.R. should be taught in High School as a requirement. Anyone can do it. It's one four hour class for a reasonable fee. You never have to feel totally helpless again because you are armed with valuable knowledge that can keep a heart beating or lungs breathing. Just knowing you can save the life of a loved one or stranger alike gives you a different outlook on life in general. If called upon, you are empowered. Should you be at the mercy of a similar circumstance to mine of years ago will you know how to breath life into someone, or will you wish you were a doctor while you watch each flick of the second hand waiting for someone to do something? Look for courses on the American Red Cross website. To perform C.P.R. you really should be taught, but if you're interested in how it works or need to refresh your memory go to HTTP://WWW.EMERGENCYTRAINING.IE/ECPR.HTM#PERFORMINGCPR ON ADULTS |
There's no Present like the Time
Current mood:
happy
"Life is short but sweet for certain" D.M.B.
The average person wakes up to an alarm clock, races breakfast into their bellies, drives to a job they tolerate and drives back home to cook and maybe clean. We live for the free time. The time with loved ones and friends. If you're lucky you live with these people. If not you live for certain weeknights and the weekends. The winter doldrums cling on and refuse to go without a fight. Everybody has ups and downs. Some days exciting, some boring. My girlfriend and I are excited about an upcoming trip. We try to stay active and have fun, but as is normal in life not everyday is super exciting. We battle the monotony by singing, playing games and goofing around. Even a walk to the corner store is an adventure with her. In the car we change song lyrics to fit the things we see. We have word searches on restaurant place mats. We invent goofy phrases and play radio/seek-button trivia, for points of course. We try to keep it fresh. The phone can be harder. She's really funny and I'm a crackpot so we tend to laugh at each other. It's good for the soul. I love our playful antics. There are so many people who just complain about a day that's ordinary. We make it cool. My brother and I are currently in competition to see who can sneak up and ambush the other. We wait till one is relaxing or coming out of his car and in a very S.W.A.T. ream like manner run in and nail him. He's going to school to be a cop and it keeps him on his toes, or not. There are few rules to the game and every now and then we try and one-up the other. My nephew treats his parents and grand-parents to his interesting antics. Whether he's squirting ketchup all over the living room and making 'ketchup angles' or giving the facial expressions of a work-site foreman as grandpa shows him the plumbing he did to my sisters house, as if he completely understands, he is a source of entertainment. It's fun to watch him examine a new toy just to see how it works. Then he breaks it, to examine the contents. Most recently a mail truck I bought him. Just like the one daddy drives. We all look forward to spring and Summer. We can't wait for the adventures to begin in the warm sun. We all had good times in the winter too. If however you find yourself at the mercy of one of those blah days, focus on the little treasures rewarded to you by your loved ones. After all, exciting times are fun but the real Presents are the Times both fun and dull, you share with them.
To LisaMing, The Fam., Jeh and all
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22 Mar 2006
There's a colonial on my playground! When most people imagine a playground they see swing-sets and slides. When I was a child the woods were our playground. Each day was a new adventure. Streams, climbing trees, missions in the forest. We even had trees we could climb to the top of and jump down. Because we were so little and the trees so strong it would catapult us back up about thirty feet and we would climb down. We called them 'parachute trees. I work not very far from where I grew up and occasionally jog past my old playground, the woods. It is now under invasion by housing developers. This is not uncommon nowadays, but it is sad. I realize the need and value in owning your own home and am excited to own one in the future. We are taking the environment for granted, however and need to change our ideas about it. Environmentalism is bigger now than it ever was. Most people are burdened by life and overlook the joy that the natural world brings to people. More importantly, it is our survival and salvation. Littering is commonplace because people are careless or indifferent, "someone will pick it up". Most people don't recycle or recycle as much as they could and not many people give thought to using cold water instead of hot when they clean their clothes. It's important to take the extra few seconds to place trash where it belongs, wash out and recycle your fast food containers, choose to use cold water whenever you can. The forest needs us and we need the forest. In America, irresponsible leaders are replaced and the system is fixed. The natural world cannot fix itself, that is the job of irresponsible people. If its inconvenient to take a few moments to care about the environment, how inconvenient will it be when fresh water no longer exists and pollution destroys the world we inhabit. You can start right now. Boycott companies you know have a poor reputation regarding pollution, I boycott Exxon-Mobil unless under dire circumstances. I pick up trash from others a lot and I am a recycling Nazi. I sleep well at night too. Hybrid cars are a great thing but it would be good to push for a hydrogen economy no pollution, no oil wars, no problems! There's a native american saying I like a lot. "Only when the last tree falls dead, only when the last river is poisoned, only when the last fish dies only then will you know that money cannot be eaten". This isn't a sermon to put down the reader. Its an alarm clock that has had the snooze button repeatedly pushed. Its time to wake up. Some day I may have children. I want them to have a forest to play and camp in, where I can show them the natural world before someone decided that trees were in the way of their profitable housing development, that will have streets named after trees (ironic), that could have been substituted by buying real estate that already exists and is for sale. My playground is almost gone, but there are others yet to be saved. Thankyou The Chipmunk Spa and Resort The yellow sun was trying its damnedest to burn the chill out of the air. The heat from last nights dying embers, in the fire, were a memory.The flowing red waves, like a carnival carousel, hypnotized and coaxed me into bed, hungry as I was. A chilly July day (its N.H.), camping and I'm tearing into a case of roasted peanuts I had taken to Franconia Notch or The crotch of the Notch as we all called it. My friends jeremy and keith stumbled out from the tent and we begin tossing them down in a frenzy. Too early to cook just yet. I can't wait for bacon. As we sat cracking shells and munching our food a chipmunk appeared. Everything about him seemed typical except for his close proximity, he was 3 feet away. As a gesture of friendship we tossed a couple of peanuts at him and were amazed that he popped both of them into his mouth at the same time. Don't let a chipmunks size fool you, they could fit your keys in their mouth if they wanted to. A brief moment later we looked up. He was back, this time with friends. They looked like a gang of school children. We continued throwing peanuts at them coaxing them to come closer and close to us ( or were they coaxing us?.who knows.). We had made some good friends and decided to play. I stood upright. They stared but didn't run. I placed a peanut on my shoulder. Just like a gang of kids one of them mustered the courage and scurried up my leg, climbed my torso, grabbed the peanut and ran back down. His little claws tickled as he did this. I continued and soon enough they were all trusting enough to climb on me and grab some food. My friend jeremy put one between his teeth and this, too, they stole away. Our chipmunk circus continued on with minor interruptions when one or another would make way to our tent and we would shoo him/her away. Like a child they would quickly forget why the tent intrigued them and they would focus on the food. If you're an animal being fed you have to focus on the food. If you look away even for a few brief seconds we move on to an animal that's paying attention because that's how feeding animals goes down. We love the attention. Always focus on the food. When we had exhausted our supply of peanuts we decided to close the chipmunk spa and resort, and .. focus on the food, our food. For me, Bacon. The chipmunks however, had a different plan. They sat grouped together starring at us as if they were saying in an English boys accent "Please sir, another peanut, please?". We ignored them, replying "Go home kid, there's none theft". After a pause. The invasion began. A full scale chipmunk invasion. One of them ran back to the tent as a diversion. We shooed him away and saw another dive into our box of corn Chex, knocking it over and spilling the contents onto our picnic table. We ran to get rid of him. It was a riot type situation. The children were ganging up on us now. They investigated cooler hatches as more of their friends showed up. They ran across frying pans, licked butter and rechecked peanut shells. They caused mayhem and destruction, tipping things over and making a mess. They ran up and down tables almost looking as if they were saying, "Where's the damn food". We laughed our asses off trying to chase them out. This continued on for a little while and finally they left. The chipmunk gang had retreated and we held our ground. Three warriors in the sun, with Flemenco music in the backround. This campsite is where we stood proud. It was time now for one thing. Focus on the food..Where's the Bacon. This is a true story. |